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Dear Anti-Depressed,
Unfortunately, your problem is not unusual. Patients have been complaining about the sexual side effects of anti-depressants basically since the drugs were invented. It’s, well, depressing.
However, there is good news for you. Since you were able to regain your sexual appetite and had great orgasms during your hiatus from the drugs, you know that you are physically and emotionally capable of being orgasmic. If you’ve done it before, that means you can do it again.
In terms of the external stimulant you ask about, there is no shortage of creams and gels that, when applied topically, claim to enhance pleasure, arousal, and orgasms. However, as a general rule, I don’t recommend these. Usually, they contain some sort of irritant meant to increase blood flow to the genitals—basically, the equivalent of sprinkling pepper between your legs. (I don’t recommend doing that, either!) You’re much better off experimenting with sexy movies, lingerie, massages, toys, or anything else that gets you in the mood and reminds you that you are still a sexy, sexual person.
An even better option for you is to talk with your doctor about altering your prescription. There are new antidepressants on the market that have shown in scientific studies to have a lower incident of sexual dysfunction (Wellbutrin is one example). Explain your concerns to your doctor candidly; your sexual health is an incredibly important part of your overall well-being, and you have every right to treat your mental health without interference to your sex life. Don’t wait.
The Sexpert |
