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While anal sex may not be pleasurable or desirable to some individuals, there is little doubt that many women and men alike enjoy the sensation of anal stimulation. There are several common myths about anal sex that should be addressed to discount these commonly held negative notions. The most common misstatement is that anal sex is painful to women and they never actually enjoy it—rather endure it to satisfy their partner.
While this may be true for some women, proclaiming that it is true for all women is simply wrong. Obviously, forcing it in and failing to properly lubricate will lead to an uncomfortable experience; however, the same can be said for vaginal sex as well. Either way, the woman needs to be physically and psychologically ready for the occasion. Relax, use plenty of lube, go slowly and the sensation may be entirely pleasurable and satisfying—indeed some women claim that their orgasms from anal sex even more satisfying that vaginal sex.
Another misguided notion that many close-minded individuals cling to is that men who enjoy anal stimulation are gay. The logic being that since gay men enjoy anal sex, any man who enjoys it must also be homosexual. Of course, this is bullshit—prostrate stimulation can be just as pleasurable to a straight man as it can be for a gay man. Using this logic, since gay men enjoy blowjobs, any man who enjoys blowjobs must also be gay. Obviously, you’d be hard-pressed to find any male in the world, straight OR gay, who doesn’t like getting head.
Basically, anal sex isn’t for everyone, but it may be for you. If you are curious about trying anal sex (or if you’re a seasoned pro!) there are steps to take to ensure that the experience is pleasurable—after all, that is the point. First, don’t be afraid to go nuts with the lube. Unlike a vagina, there isn’t any natural lubrication back there so the artificial stuff needs to be used liberally. Secondly, relax. Being tense is a sure-fire way to decrease the pleasure and make insertion next to impossible. Lastly, keep yourself safe. Using condoms is still the best way to protect oneself from STDs and anal sex is just as risky as vaginal sex without the proper precautions. Enjoy! |
